(11 minutes reading time)
Reading this page may change the way you see LOVE in your friendships and romantic relationships.
Expressions of Divine Friendship
- Equality – Both sides are seen as equals.
- Giving and Receiving – Balanced exchange of support and care.
- Learning and Growth – Encouraging personal and spiritual development.
- Trust – A foundation of honesty and reliability.
- LOVE and Affection – Deep care and appreciation.
- Balance and Harmony – Mutual effort to maintain stability.
- Emotional Support – Providing comfort in difficult times.
- Vulnerability – Openness about fears, worries, and joys.
- Active Listening – Genuine attention and understanding.
- Physical Touch – Hugs, hand-holding, pats on the back, or comforting gestures.
- Shared Values and Interests – Deep connection through common beliefs.
- Encouragement – Motivating and uplifting each other.
- Adventure and Exploration – Experiencing new things together.
- Celebration – Recognizing achievements and milestones.
- Compassion – Deep understanding and kindness.
- Artistic Inspiration – Supporting creative expression.
- Unconditional Acceptance – Loving each other despite flaws or mistakes.
- Empathy – Truly understanding and feeling each other’s emotions.
- Accountability – Holding each other to high standards.
- Playfulness and Joy – Sharing laughter and lighthearted moments.
from: Human Connection, Unconditional Love, New Relationships, and Sacred Sensuality in the World of Sanuela.
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If you haven’t already done so, now would be a good time to try this writing exercise: 11 Steps to LOVE Abundance
In the magical world of Sanuela, there are not only traditional love relationships, but also many other types. The following excerpt from the same book (Human Connection, …) shows new creative ways of relating to each other.
What works for the characters in a fantasy book may not always apply to us, or we may want to experience a combination of multiple types of relationships with someone close to us. But it brings us into a space of openness to see different perspectives other than the traditional black and white view of either being in a friendship or a romantic relationship.
For most of these relationships we don’t even have to fall in LOVE. Instead, we can simply feel, enjoy and share the high-energy frequencies of LOVE abundance together. By including hugging meditations we can live an enriched life with plenty of oxytocin, closeness and heart opening.
Romantic Relationships in Sanuela
Adoring Devotees choose to have a one-moon cycle of exploration and connection with each other, followed by a break. They spend this time exploring their connection, learning to communicate openly and honestly and being there for another. The relationship can be adjusted based on individual needs and wishes, ensuring mutual understanding and emotional well-being. The goal is to experience deep LOVE and transformation while honoring individual boundaries and growth. After the cycle, they may take a break and return to their regular lives, transformed by the LOVE they shared. Or, they may decide to find alternative arrangements that work for both parties.
Moon Love is a relationship built on unconditional LOVE between two divine friends with a sacred sensual togetherness once every lunar cycle. The bond thrives on open, honest and loving communication, nurturing trust and respect for each other’s needs and longings and may include permissions such as holding hands and long embraces, promoting a life based on the abundance of LOVE.
A Starbond Love is a deep and celestial connection between a LOVE couple. It involves limiting physical intimacy to one night of passionate lovemaking under a starlit sky, while the rest of the relationship is built on emotional and intellectual connection. The purpose is to experience a sacred LOVE ceremony with someone who they wouldn’t otherwise have a committed relationship with, allowing for inner connection and support for personal growth. After the initial night, any arousing during moments of closeness is lovingly cherished, but not further kindled. It is a unique bond that keeps the hearts open and fosters unconditional LOVE and lasting memories.
Veilheart Relationships are characterized by a mystical and enchanting LOVE that surpasses physical boundaries. The couple doesn’t touch each other directly but experiences a profound emotional bond. Their LOVE is considered a conduit for divine messages. While touch is a traditional means of connection, some couples choose Veilheart Love for its unique appeal, desiring an intimate connection on a deeper astral level despite the absence of physical touch. The intensity and depth of LOVE in Veilheart relationships can be significant, even without direct physical contact.
Whisperbond Love is characterized by a foundation of trust and secrecy. Couples in these relationships share a deep emotional connection, openly revealing their innermost thoughts and feelings. Complete transparency is key, with no room for secrets, allowing for a profound level of trust, surrender, and authentic LOVE. Physical affection, including caresses and kisses, can be explored within the boundaries set by the couple. This may include the potential for arousal if mutually agreed upon, but without physical oneness.
Flamebound Love is a passionate and intense relationship characterised by explosive chemistry and shared adventures. The couple embraces physical closeness and lives their passion to the fullest. However, their connection may be temporary, as their differing souls may struggle to find peace and stability. It provides an opportunity for inner healing and the exploration of deep intimate desires, making it suitable for those seeking intense erotic attraction for a limited period of time.
A Dreamscape Love is a relationship that unfolds within the realm of dreams and imagination. The couple shares a profound connection that transcends physical boundaries. They engage in communication and exploration through their dreams and fantasies, where they can create an intimate and sensual experience together. While physical touch and closeness can be imagined, there is no actual physical union. Dreamscape Love offers a unique sense of freedom and healing, allowing for sensual expression within the agreed-upon boundaries of the couple’s dreamscape.
In a Luminary Union,the couple supports each other in finding divine illumination, inner healing, and spiritual growth. They embrace differences and act as mirrors for one another. The majority of their relationship emphasizes emotional and intellectual closeness and shared spiritual pursuits. Physical intimacy is reserved for special celestial events like solstices or other occasions, with the couple deciding the extent of their experience.
An Echoheart Love is a relationship rooted in music, resonance, and close friendship. The couple communicates their LOVE through melodic harmonies and honest, loving communication. Physical closeness is expressed through holding hands, embracing, and sharing gentle dances. They also explore the power of music and vibrations together, creating harmonies that deepen their connection and enrich their relationship.
Whirlwind Affair relationships are marked by intense passion and fleeting encounters. The couple’s LOVE is intense but short-lived, fueled by a sense of urgency and the knowledge that their time together is limited. Their physical intimacy is passionate and adventurous, characterized by exhilarating moments of connection. However, once their time together ends, they part ways, carrying the memories of their intense romance.
Timeless Union relationships defy the boundaries of time and space. The couple’s LOVE transcends mortal constraints, stretching across different eras or dimensions. They are allowed physical closeness only during rare temporal alignments or at specific mystical locations. The rest of their relationship is built on patient waiting and longing for their fleeting moments together, creating an everlasting bond that withstands the test of time.
Building Our Stable Network of LOVE
Our feeling of safety and stability does not need to come from the condition of exclusivity, which also opens the doors to possessiveness, jealousy and unmet needs. We don’t have to feel threatened by the loving connections of our loved ones when our focus shifts from possession to wholehearted affection and support.
Once we allow different types of LOVE relationships in our lives, and also learn how to communicate and actively work with our wishes, needs and fears honestly and lovingly with each other, then we can experience the many benefits of an interwoven, stable network of shared LOVE relationships together.
The mycelial network is one of the oldest and most successful living systems on Earth. Its success comes from working together in balance and harmony, connecting and supporting life across ecosystems.
Are humans able to do the same, connecting in a network of LOVE and living in LOVE abundance? Imagine what your personal universe would feel like.
How Does It Work in Daily Life?
Let’s take an example. Anna has a happy relationship with Ben. He fulfills most of her needs, wishes, interests and passions, let’s call them A, B, C and D. These letters may stand for any qualities and aspects that are important in your own life.
With the topics of E and F, Anna quickly learns that Ben is simply not the type of man with whom she would be able to experience this. He doesn’t even want to talk about it, whether it’s because he’s not interested, or because he’s not ready to face these parts of himself. He may be anxious about this, or there may even be some unhealed trauma that it is not Anna’s job to heal if he does not open up to it himself.
At first Anna makes her peace with neglecting E and F in her life, as it seems a small price to pay when Ben happens to be the perfect match in all the other aspects of her life.
However, this sometimes leads to tension in their relationship, and Anna sometimes wonders if she really should hold back on these important aspects of herself, as she feels an inner calling to grow and develop in these directions.
After some honest and empathetic discussions, Anna and Ben decide that the depth and honesty of their relationship and LOVE for each other would actually be deepened if they left their traditional relationship path, while keeping some important boundaries of their commitment to each other in place.
To be more specific in this example, this could mean that they don’t want each other to have penetrative sex with anyone else, but they do allow cuddling and experiencing sensual energies with others, including arousal, as long as each remains centred in their heart and is not driven by lower ego desires.
Anna begins to explore her lost parts E and F with Daisy and Evan. She is in close friendship with both of them, and sometimes they exchange massage sessions or hugging meditations with each other. With Daisy she begins a Moon Love and they spend a cuddly night together once in a lunar cycle.
Anna feels more fulfilled, more balanced and less stressed about the missing parts in her relationship with Ben. She can now fully enjoy all the aspects they share so beautifully together, accepting that E and F are not necessary to bring up with Ben (although after about a year, Ben actually starts to ask Anna about E and wants to try if he might like it now and then).
Meanwhile, Ben is exploring which aspects of himself, his needs or his drives for growth or healing are not fully compatible with Anna’s wishes. He finds that he would like to experience more G and H in his life and talks to Anna about it. She agrees and so Ben gets together with Claire (which later leads to a long lasting Moon Love relationship) and Faye, which becomes a beautiful close friendship with lots of cuddling and hugging.
Anna and Ben feel more fulfilled and balanced, growing and healing much faster in many aspects of their lives. Over time they also begin to notice and appreciate the positive influences of their wider LOVE relationship network.
Sometimes, when they have a problem with each other, they discuss it with Claire or Daisy, who often have new perspectives, and who are both very interested in maintaining the stability of their relationships, acting as a fair, balancing and supportive role.
At other times, Anna and Ben face emotional or organisational challenges. As well as being more fulfilled, their lives are also more complex than before. When it comes to problems such as jealousy, they learn that it is never the problem of the one who feels it, but something that needs to be resolved with everyone involved.
Who knows, these four may even decide to move into a small family-like community together one day as their friendship, trust and LOVE for each other continues to grow?