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  • Your Path, Your Time: A New Type of Weekend Retreat Experience at Finca Sanuela

    Your Path, Your Time: A New Type of Weekend Retreat Experience at Finca Sanuela

    Introducing the vision of multidimensional, self-directed and shared weekend retreats – open every weekend (5 minutes reading time) Most retreat formats are built around one topic, one group and one fixed weekend. Everyone arrives together, follows the same programme and moves at the same pace. While this structure makes sense for the organiser, it requires…

  • Why We Think Sleeping in Isolated Rooms Is Normal

    Why We Think Sleeping in Isolated Rooms Is Normal

    (7 minutes reading time) A few years ago, I walked the Camino de Santiago. Before I went, I knew that most pilgrim hostels have shared dormitories. Many beds in one big room. Strangers sleeping right next to you. I imagined snoring, coughing, and people coming and going at all hours. I wasn’t sure if I…

  • Personalised Control?

    Personalised Control?

    (1 minute reading time) Last night, I had a dream that showed me what the future might look like. While I was talking to two friends in a room, I heard a voice on the radio singing my name in a rather emotional way to make sure I took notice. The song continued and seemed…

  • Seeing Autism as a Gift

    Seeing Autism as a Gift

    (2 minutes reading time) Part of what makes me different seems to include some aspects of what we call autism. This provides a simple explanation for why some people find it difficult to relate to me. As I recognise many of these traits in people who CAN relate to me, I am able to accept…

  • Ghosting: A Harmful Coping Mechanism

    Ghosting: A Harmful Coping Mechanism

    (7 minutes reading time) Sometimes, we simply forget to answer because we are caught up in the many conversations and connections that fill our days. At other times, we consciously choose a slower pace, leaving space between replies, which makes it easy for a message to get lost in the flow. Beyond these honest oversights,…

  • The Roman War That Gave Us January 1st

    The Roman War That Gave Us January 1st

    (3 minutes reading time) Did you know that our tradition of the new year beginning on the first of January is based on a wartime efficiency decree issued by the Romans? Facing a rebellion in Spain in 153 BC, the Senate of the Roman Empire made a crucial bureaucratic change: they moved the inauguration of…

  • 20 Wishes for Human Awakening in 2026

    20 Wishes for Human Awakening in 2026

    (5 minutes reading time) 31.12.2025 – I asked Perplexity AI: Based on the topics in my books, make a list of what you wish humans to develop in 2026. This was the answer (unedited): For 2026, a wish list for human development grounded in the heart-wisdom of your books could look like this: 1. Deeper…

  • An Authentic Christmas?

    An Authentic Christmas?

    (5 minutes reading time) There’s something wrong about Christmas … The 25th of December is almost certainly not the historical date of Jesus’s birth. For strategic reasons, the Church aimed to replace deeply rooted pagan festivals with Christian holy days. The theological message was powerful: Jesus could be presented as the ‘Sun of Righteousness’ and…

  • Why Are We on Earth?

    Why Are We on Earth?

    (4 minutes reading time) A friend recently asked me this question. Since everyone has a completely different path, I cannot speak for others here. So ‘we’ is only appropriate if I describe myself personally as ‘we’ (i.e. a gathering/loving unity of several souls or parts). Earth is hell. Even though it often looks beautiful and…

  • Fancy Some Meat Pizza?

    Fancy Some Meat Pizza?

    (1 minute reading time) Last night, I had a strange dream. The previous evening, after abstaining from meat for a long time, I ate a pizza with salami and bacon and didn’t feel bad about it. Usually, I don’t even feel like eating meat, not even a small portion. However, I was going through some…

  • 10 Common Challenges in Monogamous Relationships and Why a Network of LOVE Can Be a Better Fit.

    10 Common Challenges in Monogamous Relationships and Why a Network of LOVE Can Be a Better Fit.

    (3 minutes reading time) Here’s how a relationship network can offer a different approach to these common relationship challenges: 1. Communication Breakdown Open, honest and loving communication is essential in a relationship network, as successfully navigating multiple intimate connections requires constant sharing of feelings, desires and boundaries. The network’s inherent complexity makes silent assumptions impossible,…

  • Why We Cling to False Beliefs

    Why We Cling to False Beliefs

    (1 minute reading time) Humans often cling to ideas that seem correct simply because they want them to be true – even when evidence says otherwise. This happens because our minds are wired to protect us from the pain of being wrong. Here’s why it’s so hard to let go: 1. Avoiding Mental Discomfort When…

  • Why We LOVE to Gossip

    Why We LOVE to Gossip

    (2 minutes reading time) Gossiping is a deeply ingrained human behavior that serves several psychological, social, and even evolutionary functions. Here’s why it feels so fulfilling – and why it’s hard to resist: 1. Evolutionary Roots: Survival & Social Bonding 2. Social Bonding & Belonging 3. Ego Boost & Social Comparison 4. Power & Influence…

  • We Are Dopamine Addicts!

    We Are Dopamine Addicts!

    (7 minutes reading time) The food industry has specifically recognised and systematically exploited the weak points in the human reward system that have developed over thousands of years of evolution. Their aim is simple and profitable: to increase consumption frequency and sales by maximising stimulation of the dopamine system. Modern ‘stimulants’ surpass natural rewards many…

  • Rooted Symbiosis: A Short Story

    Rooted Symbiosis: A Short Story

    (5 minutes reading time) Tova leaned back on the rock, her eyes fixed on the crackling fire. The night air smelled of pine and distant rain. Lirin sat cross-legged beside her with a stick in hand, silently drawing patterns in the dirt. “When the first neural chips were implanted in our temples, we felt like…

  • True Social Media

    True Social Media

    (8 minutes reading time) Recently, there was a fire dance performance at an ecstatic dance event. I was surprised to see that about half of the audience pulled out their phones to record it instead of being fully present in the moment. If asked, many of them would probably claim that they can multitask —…

  • Holy Trinity Between Consciousness, Energy and LOVE

    Holy Trinity Between Consciousness, Energy and LOVE

    (3 minutes reading time) I asked two different AI chatbots to “Describe the Holy Trinity between consciousness, energy and LOVE.” This is what they said: Answer From ChatGPT (gpt-4o) The Holy Trinity between consciousness, energy and LOVE can be seen as a living, interwoven relationship – three aspects of one unified source, each holding a…

  • Fear of LOVE and Vulnerability

    Fear of LOVE and Vulnerability

    (28 minutes reading time) Dear AI, why do humans have such a hard time admitting their true desires and longings towards sensual closeness and LOVE, hiding it from each other, being ashamed of them, or just incapable of clearly feeling them, distracting themselves, running away from people (blocking them) when someone even mentions unconditional LOVE,…

  • What Men Want in Modern Femininity

    What Men Want in Modern Femininity

    (2 minutes reading time) What Men Find Unsexy in Modern Women The Balance Men Seek Men today want a woman who is kind but not naïve, confident but not combative, independent but not detached, and feminine in a way that feels natural—not performative.

  • What Women Want in Modern Masculinity

    What Women Want in Modern Masculinity

    (2 minutes reading time) What Women Find Unsexy in Modern Men The Balance Women Seek Ultimately, women today want a man who is strong but kind, confident but humble, ambitious but present, and emotionally intelligent without losing his backbone. The “new masculinity” isn’t about rejecting all traditional traits but refining them with self-awareness and adaptability.

  • “Soulfamilies. Living, Loving and Growing Together”

    “Soulfamilies. Living, Loving and Growing Together”

    (2 minutes reading time) You can download all my ebooks for free here. Donations are warmly appreciated! Who Would Love This Book? This book is perfect for anyone who longs for deeper, more liberating and supportive connections. Have you’ve ever thought, Why can’t love feel more honest, free from fears and possessiveness? Then this book is…

  • Rethinking the Future

    Rethinking the Future

    (2 minutes reading time) When we think about the future, most science fiction stories and films paint a gloomy picture. The world is cold, grey, and dominated by machines. Cities are full of giant metal skyscrapers, flying cars, and digital screens. There is little or no room for nature, and humans seem emotionally and spiritually…

  • Spiritual Concepts from “Blossoming Beyond Boundaries”

    Spiritual Concepts from “Blossoming Beyond Boundaries”

    (3 minutes reading time) This content has been generated using AI (GPT-4-turbo) with no modifications other than spelling LOVE in capital letters. You can download the book here. 1. Divine LOVE as the CoreThe story revolves around divine LOVE – a deep, conscious, spiritual force that heals and unites. Characters learn to expand their capacity…

  • Spiritual Concepts from “Ayana, My Light and My Love”

    Spiritual Concepts from “Ayana, My Light and My Love”

    (3 minutes reading time) This content has been generated using AI (GPT-4-turbo) with no modifications other than spelling LOVE in capital letters. You can download the book here. Who Will Enjoy This Book? I would recommend Ayana, My Light and My Love to readers who are open to exploring the meeting point of spirituality, LOVE,…

  • Life After Desire

    Life After Desire

    (1 minute reading time) What remains when nothing attracts us anymore? When we no longer feel drawn to outer desires, it may seem like emptiness. But it’s a sign of inner awakening, as the soul is preparing to merge more deeply with its Source. It is a quiet returning to our true home. The world…

  • From Binary Consciousness to Living Awareness

    From Binary Consciousness to Living Awareness

    (2 minutes reading time) In the past, words like enlightenment, awakening, or unconditional LOVE were often seen as all-or-nothing. Either you are ‘awake’ or you are not. Either you LOVE unconditionally or you don’t. Like a switch – on or off. This is what we can call binary consciousness. It works like a simple computer…

  • Spiritual Concepts from “Allowing LOVE – Spiritual Poems”

    Spiritual Concepts from “Allowing LOVE – Spiritual Poems”

    (4 minutes reading time) This content has been generated using AI (GPT-4-turbo) with no modifications other than spelling LOVE in capital letters. You can download the book here. 1. Divine LOVE as Healing Energy The poems describe divine LOVE as a spiritual force that heals, uplifts, and unites. It’s seen not as romantic attachment, but…

  • We Don’t Need to Meditate Alone

    We Don’t Need to Meditate Alone

    (1 minute reading time) We sit quietly, in silence, hoping to reach enlightenment. But is that really the best way? Yoga means union – not separation. Union with life, union with the divine, and also union with each other. We have been taught that we must go inside ourselves and feel only ourselves. But what…

  • Are We Eating Eggs the Wrong Way?

    Are We Eating Eggs the Wrong Way?

    (2 minutes reading time) We have seen eggs with an inner polarity: the yolk and the white. We often forget that an egg has three parts, it is a sacred trinity! The shell is the third. It completes the picture – like the often overlooked circle around the Yin Yang symbol, showing the unity of…

  • The Visions of the Pioneers

    The Visions of the Pioneers

    (8 minutes reading time) Pioneers whose visions were only realised after their death Today’s pioneers – visionaries of our time These souls – and many more – often act without much media coverage, without quick results, but with deep trust in the light that works through them. As astrologer Silke Schäfer writes: They hold spaces…

  • God’s Whisper

    God’s Whisper

    (1 minute reading time) There are many things that fascinate me about the song God’s Whisper by Raury. A young man declares that he is an indigo child, that he is not afraid, that he will not live on his knees, that he hears the voice of God and that not only he but we…

  • Shall We Walk Together?

    Shall We Walk Together?

    (1 minute reading time) Die Toten Hosen sang in 1996: I don’t want to go to paradise if the way there is so difficult. (Lyrics from the album Opium fürs Volk) Waking up, becoming aware, becoming one … it’s anything but simple and easy! Again and again we have to break our habitual patterns, let…

  • 16 Personality Types

    16 Personality Types

    (2 minutes reading time) Personality tests are always in vogue. Who doesn’t want to know what type we are, and to read a few simple psychological explanations and instructions on how best to deal with them? I have already written elsewhere about the exaggerated boxing in by Human Design. Now the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI)…

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